To the Nigerian youth
Omoluabi Letter to the Nigerian Youth
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Wake up. Please, wake up.
On the night of 20 October 2020, at the Lekki Toll Gate, unarmed young people took cover under the green-white-green and sang the national anthem, yet the bullets flew. The youths had believed in vain that the flag would shield them, that their voices would be heard, that their country would protect them.
That night became a scar in our national memory. But it should also become a mirror.
My dear young Nigerians, I write to you not as a politician, not as a preacher, and not as someone who has all the answers. I write as an African who has watched our continent struggle, watched our people suffer, and watched generations of young people inherit problems they did not create.
You are the largest demographic force in Nigeria. You are the majority. You are the energy of the nation. You are the ones who will live longest with the consequences of what we do today.
But numbers alone do not create transformation.
Character does.
This is where the ancient wisdom of Omoluabi becomes relevant.
Omoluabi is not simply a Yoruba word. It is an idea of character. It speaks of a person formed by discipline, integrity, courage, responsibility, humility, respect and moral excellence.
It asks a difficult question:
What kind of human being are you becoming?
Not what degree do you have?
Not how many followers do you have?
Not how much money do you possess?
Not how loudly can you shout?
But what kind of person are you becoming?
My generation has not given you the Nigeria you deserve. We have made mistakes. We have tolerated corruption. We have accepted mediocrity. We have allowed ethnicity, religion and political loyalty to divide us when the greater identity should have been our common humanity.
For that, we owe you an apology.
But you must also understand something: you cannot build a better Nigeria by simply becoming a younger version of the people who failed you.
If corruption disgusts you, do not become corrupt when you gain power.
If injustice angers you, do not become unjust when you become powerful.
If bad leadership frustrates you, do not reproduce the same leadership style when your opportunity comes.
If tribalism hurts you, do not embrace tribalism when it benefits you.
If religious hypocrisy offends you, do not become a hypocrite when religion gives you influence.
Change must begin inside.
My dear youth, do not allow social media to become your conscience.
Do not measure your worth by likes, followers, views or comments.
Do not allow the pressure to appear successful to destroy your ability to become successful.
There is nothing wrong with wealth. There is nothing wrong with ambition. There is nothing wrong with wanting a beautiful life.
But wealth without character can destroy the person who possesses it.
Power without character can become oppression.
Knowledge without character can become manipulation.
Religion without character can become hypocrisy.
Education without character can become arrogance.
Technology without character can become a weapon.
This is why I ask you to rediscover character.
Learn to tell the truth even when lying is profitable.
Learn to keep your word even when nobody is watching.
Learn to respect people who cannot help you.
Learn to apologize.
Learn to listen.
Learn to disagree without hatred.
Learn to work with people who do not look like you, speak like you, worship like you or vote like you.
That is the Nigeria we must build.
Do not wait for government to make you useful.
Do not wait for politicians to give you purpose.
Do not wait for society to validate you.
Build something.
Teach somebody.
Mentor somebody.
Employ somebody.
Create something.
Serve somebody.
Make your community better.
And when your time comes to occupy a position of authority, remember those who stood where you stand today.
Remember that public office is not private property.
Remember that leadership is stewardship.
Remember that power is temporary.
Remember that history records more than speeches. It records consequences.
My dear young Nigerians, the future is not waiting for you.
The future is being created by what you do now.
Do not allow disappointment to turn into cynicism.
Do not allow anger to turn into hatred.
Do not allow frustration to turn into destruction.
Let your anger become energy.
Let your pain become wisdom.
Let your disappointment become determination.
And let your ambition be guided by character.
You are not merely the future of Nigeria.
You are Nigeria now.
Wake up.
Organize.
Learn.
Build.
Serve.
Lead.
And above all, become an Omoluabi.
With hope in your generation,
Ladi Peter Thompson
Author, The Omoluabi Matrix: Africa’s Greatest Gift to Mankind